世上既沒有永恆的愛，也沒有永恆的痛苦 — 曹鋼和 There is no forever love, as well the forever pain. — Jo Kang-hwa
哈囉，掰掰，我是鬼媽媽! Hi, bye,Mama!
韓劇感想 Thoughts after watching
這次要來分享的韓劇為「哈囉，掰掰，我是鬼媽媽」，選擇這齣有兩個原因，第一個為該劇季節為冬天，現在12月相同，第二個為這齣戲要告訴我們的課題，也就是「離別」，橫跨了親情與愛情，讓我觀看的時候幾乎每集都哭到不能自已。
瑜理在一次出門時遇上車禍，懷孕後期的她因為搶救來不及，生下孩子就離開了。這五年間其實瑜理都沒有離開，她的魂魄在女兒旁邊守護著、在家人之間遊蕩、在閨蜜旁邊陪伴，像是從來沒有離開過一樣。在第五年的忌日，看到母親故作堅強，只敢躲在廁所偷偷哭泣，再看到5歲的女兒根本完全不記得這個生母，一生氣就罵了神，卻意外得到49天死而復生的「處罰」，而在這49天，神希望她可以找到屬於自己的定位。
一樣想要分享三集最有感觸的內容。首先是第三集「唯有死過，才能明白人生的美麗」。瑜理在意外復活後，可以摸到最愛的女兒、吃了好久沒有吃的美食，並想要應徵幼兒園的廚房阿姨，希望可以天天看到女兒。即使瑜理想要隱藏行蹤，卻在各種意外後被前夫鋼和看見，鋼和因為還不知道如何面對，只好先把信用卡給瑜理，安排她住在飯店。
瑜理十分滿足於復活的第一天，片尾卻將劇情拉到瑜理在新婚時，氣沖沖跑去找閨蜜賢情姊抱怨丈夫，在賢情的安撫下繼續鬧脾氣。但那時的瑜理完全沒有想到，等不到孩子出生，她竟會先離開。最後瑜理的旁白:｢或許我們在世時感受到最美好的事，就是向所愛之人傾訴愛意，以及對感激之人道謝。給予能獲的多大的喜悅，而總是受惠於人有多麼愧疚。我是在死後才透過愛我的人，體會到這一點。」在世時總覺得某些事特別煩心，但似乎到死後，連當初的生氣都覺得特別珍貴，因為再也沒有機會了。
I want to introduce the drama ‘’ Hello, bye, Mama!’’ because December is the same season in the drama as well, and the topic of ‘’ departure’’ this time have crossed the love to the family.
Yu-ri had a car accident in her late period of her pregnancy, she then died after infant was born. During the 5 years, her spirit hadn’t left around her daughter, family and her best friend liked she never left. On her 5th annual memorial date, she saw her mother crying lonely behind the public and her daughter didn’t remember her. It made her feel angry and insult the god. Thus, she was gotten the 49-day punishment to find her position.
One of the three episodes I want to share is the 3rd ‘’ We would understand the wonder of life only through death.’’ After the revival, Yu-ri was so exciting to tough daughter’s face and having delicious food. Moreover, she was going to have a job in kindergarten in order to see her daughter every day. While after some accidents, she was found by Kang-hwa. As he hadn’t known how to deal with the situation, Kang-hwa temporally set Yu-ri in the hotel with his credit card.
Yu-ri had experienced a happy day of revival. However, the plot was changed to the before time when Yu-ri was angry and complained about Kang-hwa for some tiny problems to Hyung-jung , her best friend. It is said by Yu-ri ‘’Showing love to who we love and expressing appreciation to some one we are thankful to might be the best wonderful things we can feel when we are still alive. How great we feel happy when giving and how great we feel sorry when receiving by others, as I was dawned by those who love me after I died.’’ We think how precious of those emotions when leaving the world because there is no any chance to do it again.
